You’re Not Crazy
Some people come across very aloof. They make it seem like they are 100% in tune with what they want, and how they perceive the world, and depending on their personality, can make you question the way you view your own world. This isn't inherently a bad thing, but you can never let them make you question your sanity by giving them too much control over your reality. Just because someone thinks the way you're handling a situation isn't great doesn't mean you should feel bad for feeling that way. You didn't invent the whole thing in your mind, and you are reacting appropriately to outside stimuli, even if it doesn't line up with someone elses. Never let anyone un-justify your feelings, and likewise be sure you never dismiss them outright. We feel and do things for a reason, and there is always a lesson to be learned. It takes at least two to tango.
Remember that even if you misread every part of a particular situation, it's not all you. In fact it has nothing to do with you. Human beings are incredibly susceptible to vague, since it allows our imaginations to run wild. As we get older that wilderness can seem overwhelming, looming over us waiting to swallow us whole. The best and only way to proceed is to be aware of your presence, and know what kind of person you want to be. Just because you think weaknesses doesn't mean you have to translate those into weak actions. Thoughts and ideas are just that, and nothing happens until it happens. This way, no matter what happens, at least you can look back and say you did everything the way you wanted, and have no regrets for any of your actions. Guilt and regret are useless emotions, and as the sole keeper of yours, you have total control over how you allow them to affect your life.